My Girls

FRIENDS...HOW MANY OF THEM HAVE THEM?? REAL ONES?

HMMMM....I HAVE SOME FAB ONES...LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT THEM!! :)

I am so freakin' blessed!! I have some of the best friends that any girl could ever ask for! My girls honest, fun, beautiful, supportive, DIVAs, intellegent, classy, and independent. Without them, I have no idea what I would do!! They have helped so much with all the ups, downs, and random times in my life. And I have been there for them the same - at least I try to be.

As we've all grown...we've all changed in our unique ways - but what hasn't changed is our friendship.

I've heard the tragic stories of friends who back-stab, lie to each other, steal each others man (knowingly), start rumors, and are constantly putting each other down. What type of friend is that? I was watching "Daddy's Little Girls" the other day, and I got so pissed at her so-called friends who were telling her that he just wasn't the one for her. That she was so much better than him; and not because he was an @sshole, not because he was a playa playa, but because he didn't have her same income, and didn't come from her same background. They sucked at being good friends...they encouraged her to go out with that dumb 40-yr old rapper, and that dumb married man...but she gets someone who treats her right and they get all "we're-to-good-for-this-and-that".

My life's journey has brought some of the most amazing women into my life. I have the kind of friends that we may not speak for weeks/months, but when we get back together...it's like we never stopped speaking. I have the kind of friends that will hold you when a person with a penis has broken your heart. I have the kind of friends that will stay up with you all night to take out every track, and comb through every nap. I have the kind of friends that will pass on dirty looks to those chicks that hate you for whatever random reason. I have the kind of friends that will take your crush's phone to put your number in it, even though they may spell your name wrong. I have the kind of friends that will laugh at you when you're being random. I have the kind of friends that know when you're in a mood, and will just let you be. I have the best friends...EVER!!

If you have these type of women in your life, hold on to them, never let them go, treasure them, and give them all the beauty and the grace they send your way. Make sure not to lose them over some nonsense, be real with them, and accept them for them...not who you think they should be.

Thanks for reading...

*Smooches*

Mal

REVENGE

Revenge: "to exact punishment or expiation for a wrong on behalf of, esp. in a resentful or vindictive spirit; to take vengeance for; inflict punishment for; avenge"

I don't know why, but my mind has been consumed with the though of revenge; what it means, who I need to get it on, does it even matter, will it solve anything, will it hurt me more than anything? I have gotten to a point several times in my life where I contemplated doing something wrong to someone else for the wrong they brought to me. I mean I've come up with some GOOD plans that wouldn't lead to me (I've seen CSI and Law & Order one too many times...lol), some plans that would leave that person hurting bad - both mentally, physically, and spiritually. When someone hurts you like that...sometimes all you can think about is how to make them feel the same...if not worse.

But, as I get older (and better...*wink*) I've learned that vengeance is not mine...it belongs to the Lord; and God don't like ugly. Then I look around and realize that those who have made the decision to hurt me or others around them, can't seem to get anything right. They're constantly trying to move forward (through deceit, and other wrongdoings) and they keep getting pushed 3 steps back. One of my life motto's is to treat others as you want to be treated. It's the only way to go!! When you try to live your life right, and be a blessings to those around you, never will you have to worry about those that decide to hurt you. They'll get there's...they always do, and I speak from a nice chunk of experience...lol!!

It's fun to think of ways to get back at folks...but is it really worth the energy? You can't help it sometimes, but you can help if you act on it - so don't. Don't give that waste a time any of your time, and focus on what matters the most, living you life to the fullest and giving the same love, respect, and care to others as you want for you and yours.

Ahhh...blog #2...this is getting fun!! :)

"So live ya life....aayyyyyyyy!"

*Mal*

My Very First Time

Well...this is a first for moi...but my lovely cousin Kina has inspired me to start blogging. So...here I go, other than my exercise regiment, this may be a good stress reliever for me.


Speaking of stress - let's get to the title of my blog. iTunes has me on a medium level of pisstivity right now. Since November 2008, I have downloaded 9 songs that they have charged me for, but have NOT shown up in my freakin' library. See, I was trying to go green with my music, trying to stop buying Cd's and just go straight digital...and look where it has gotten me. Don't get me wrong...I love my iPod - side note: My first one got stolen out of my car and I had a breakdown in Arrowhead parking lot...I'll go into details on that another time.

Back to the blog: and I love iTunes, but why won't they give me my Coldplay songs, why won't they give me my Biggie songs - side note #2: After seeing 'Notorious' I had to get a few more in collection - I've never been a Biggie fan, but he had some joints that I loved. Back to the blog: why won't they give me my "Beep", or my "Lions, and tigers, and bears?" Right now iTunes is being a hater, and I'm sick of it. I've sent an email, and reported the problem...I'm doing it again for the 3rd time because time one and time two just didn't work out.



Wow...after typing that one little paragraph, I don't feel so much anger anymore. Maybe this is a good idea. I wonder if you can upload blogs from your phone? I have some moments at work when I may need this stress reliever...lol!!

Thank you cousin...I found a new way to help me stay positive about the random, and ridiculous situations that swing my way!!

Smile Pretty!!

*Mal*