HMMMM....I HAVE SOME FAB ONES...LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT THEM!! :)
I am so freakin' blessed!! I have some of the best friends that any girl could ever ask for! My girls honest, fun, beautiful, supportive, DIVAs, intellegent, classy, and independent. Without them, I have no idea what I would do!! They have helped so much with all the ups, downs, and random times in my life. And I have been there for them the same - at least I try to be.
As we've all grown...we've all changed in our unique ways - but what hasn't changed is our friendship.
I've heard the tragic stories of friends who back-stab, lie to each other, steal each others man (knowingly), start rumors, and are constantly putting each other down. What type of friend is that? I was watching "Daddy's Little Girls" the other day, and I got so pissed at her so-called friends who were telling her that he just wasn't the one for her. That she was so much better than him; and not because he was an @sshole, not because he was a playa playa, but because he didn't have her same income, and didn't come from her same background. They sucked at being good friends...they encouraged her to go out with that dumb 40-yr old rapper, and that dumb married man...but she gets someone who treats her right and they get all "we're-to-good-for-this-and-that".
My life's journey has brought some of the most amazing women into my life. I have the kind of friends that we may not speak for weeks/months, but when we get back together...it's like we never stopped speaking. I have the kind of friends that will hold you when a person with a penis has broken your heart. I have the kind of friends that will stay up with you all night to take out every track, and comb through every nap. I have the kind of friends that will pass on dirty looks to those chicks that hate you for whatever random reason. I have the kind of friends that will take your crush's phone to put your number in it, even though they may spell your name wrong. I have the kind of friends that will laugh at you when you're being random. I have the kind of friends that know when you're in a mood, and will just let you be. I have the best friends...EVER!!
If you have these type of women in your life, hold on to them, never let them go, treasure them, and give them all the beauty and the grace they send your way. Make sure not to lose them over some nonsense, be real with them, and accept them for them...not who you think they should be.
Thanks for reading...
*Smooches*
Mal
I see me!! I love you cousin! We have become so close over the past few years and I love you so. You have great friends and I am glad to have an amazing friend like you in my life!
ReplyDeleteThis was so sweet. Consider yourself lucky and loved. It is rare to find friends like that!
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